By kindlylives Not all utopia was as poetic as Li Ziqi’s idyllic life.
Hannah Neeleman was currently the most popular rural lifestyle blogger in the United States.
She took care of the 328-acre farm in utah, cutting wood, feeding horses, milking, cooking, and living a life of peace.
The original natural scenery, pure natural food, far away from the hustle and bustle, everything was self-sufficient.
Their children were always around their knees, and their loved ones were always by their side. It was as if everyone had made a wish to live a happy and stable life.
However, On one hand, Hanna was regarded as the ‘North American Li Ziqi’. On the other hand, her life was exposed as not a fairy tale but more like a horror novel. 。
The story started many years ago.
In 2011, 21-year-old Hannah enrolled in New York’s Juilliard School, one of the world’s leading music and dance schools. She was an outstanding Ballet student.
At that time, Daniel, who was two years older than her, fell in love with her at first sight and immediately began to pursue her fiercely.
The rich man with a lot of money and a lot of money was domineering. After confirming their relationship for three months, they immediately got married.
Hannah, who did not even have a graduation certificate, became the manor’s wife in a daze.
After their marriage, they had eight children in 13 years, like crops that bloomed and bore fruit regularly, one crop a year.
They advocated primitive, natural, and wild nature, including childbirth. Hannah also insisted on giving birth naturally at home without medication to relieve pain.
There was only one time when her husband was unable to accompany her during labor, so she had to go through a painless delivery in the hospital.
Tired and tired were the first reactions of most people when they saw Hannah.
Taking care of eight children and managing the farm was an impossible task.
But Hannah was happy to do it.
Since 2021, she had shared her daily life on social media platforms. Her original lifestyle immediately attracted many fans. So far, she had more than 20 million fans on all platforms.
In the Short videos that lasted more than ten minutes, she always finished the housework quickly, like a superman with seven hands and eight feet. It was as if she had the illusion that everything she did was simple.
Watching her milk the cows, pick up the eggs, knead the dough, bake the bread, and the innocent and lively children chasing and playing at the side, such a quiet and leisurely time was something that people yearned for.
Everyone liked to see how a beautiful young woman raised and took care of her children, and how she managed her huge family in an orderly manner.
As for the hard work outside the camera, it was deliberately ignored.
It turned out that before she became a mother of eight children, Hannah’s dream was to be an outstanding ballerina. She had also shined on the stage.
She didn’t forget her favorite dance in her daily life. That was why she named her account Ballerina Farm, just like her life: On the farm, watching the Ballet 。
However, even though she owned a 328-acre manor, she did not have a dance studio of her own.
Some sharp-eyed netizens also discovered that one year, she revealed her wish to go on a holiday early on on her birthday. When she thought that the birthday present she received was a plane ticket to Greece, she got an apron that could hold eggs.
Hannah was the role model of a good wife and mother at home, and she became the symbol of a beautiful housewife outside.
When she was 20 weeks pregnant, she participated in the American Young Women’s Beauty Contest and won the championship.
At the beginning of last year, just 12 days after giving birth to her eighth child, she once again wore a sexy dress and participated in the beauty contest with a smile.
Hannah was undoubtedly the perfect wife in the traditional impression. She could go to the hall and cook. She was willing to contribute without complaint, and could not find any fault in any aspect. 。
However, it was precisely because she was perfect that people would feel sorry for her after seeing the fairytale world she had constructed.
There was no such thing as a carefree paradise in the world. Beneath the beautiful appearance, there were always people who worked hard.
In fact, after Hannah became famous, there were already objections on the Internet. They thought that she took care of her husband and children as the full meaning of life.
Therefore, someone roughly categorized her as a ” delicate wife.” Except for the role of wife and mother, she lost herself 。
This was not to belittle the profession of a housewife, but to think that Hannah could prioritize herself. Her life was not only to take care of her husband and raise her children, but also to have passion and dreams.
Zhong Jiaxin, who also liked to have children, would not let people think that she was a delicate wife without an independent personality.
She said that if conditions allowed, she would have four children.
Because her husband did not need her to take care of the housework, did not need her to serve him humbly, as long as she could happily do what she liked.
You see, When a woman received enough respect and a sense of security, she was willing to bear children for a man and run a warm and harmonious family together.
Unlike Hannah, whose desire to have children stemmed from her husband’s desire to have 15 children to fill a minibus.
Be it Li Ziqi or Hannah, they were both outstanding talents in returning to the basics.
However, compared to Li Ziqi, the people Watching Hanna’s video would make one feel heartache and regret besides envy. 。
We watched as Li Ziqi went from spring planting to autumn harvesting, from raising silkworms to weaving. She carried water, plowed the land, built houses, and ground her hands until thick calluses appeared on them. We didn’t feel any sympathy for her.
She was using bricks and tiles to build her own dream paradise, living the life she had dreamed of. Her life was free and unrestrained.
Hannah, on the other hand, ranked herself at the end of her husband and children. Her busy life had long been unable to accommodate her original dream. She lived like a song that was repeatedly sung by family responsibilities, repeating a fixed monotonous melody.
Life was supposed to be a colorful picture, but she only painted colors in her family.
I hope that not only Hannah, but every one of you and me can break free from the cage that has trapped us. We won’t be defined by any framework and will spread our wings and soar in the vast world.